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Permalink Reply by Patricia Early on April 25, 2009 at 10:37pm
Permalink Reply by Patricia Early on April 26, 2009 at 11:57am Get to know the old timers in the farming community. They are well connected, have infinite amounts of common sense and tools from years past and are sometimes very willing to share or help you fix stuff. One saved my rear last week when I needed a hydraulic cylinder for my John Deere 4010 to do some disking. He said I could use it for as long as I needed it.
So true Patricia, I am so into letting these older people feel like they still have something to contribute because they DO! When we speak to them about what they have done all their lives their eyes light up! I know my Dad feels like less of a man because his body is falling him, but he is still a man... now with wisdom rather than physical strength! My father 82 with Parkinson's,God Bless him. And while I'm at it Bless my mom who is caring for him!And I couldn't agree more about knowing the old-timers! They know everything, and have seen everything, during their lifetime, and are so proud to share it with us. Because I work with my grandfather, I know firsthand how invaluable his insight is every day. But not only do -I- benefit from his knowledge, but he benefits from my asking! Age and infirmity have robbed him of most of his sight, his strength, his hearing, and the fine motor control of his hands, and there are days when he slips into deep depression as he mourns the loss of his vitality and his "usefulness" as a man. I think that by me asking his guidance, wisdom and advice, I remind him that his value is in who he is, not in what he can physically do, and that nothing will ever take away that value he has to his family and neighbors.
Jim Snyder said:Get to know the old timers in the farming community. They are well connected, have infinite amounts of common sense and tools from years past and are sometimes very willing to share or help you fix stuff. One saved my rear last week when I needed a hydraulic cylinder for my John Deere 4010 to do some disking. He said I could use it for as long as I needed it.
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